I have had the privilege of being trusted with other people’s personal stories many times throughout my life.  I assume that’s because I’m willing to be vulnerable with others myself, and I don’t hold back on asking questions in the inner chamber.  I think it’s a beautiful thing when we can learn from one another’s experiences.  Truth sets us free, after all. 

When these conversations turn to partnership and parenting, it has occurred to me more than once that the difference between a good parent and a great parent, is how that parent treats their spouse (their children’s other parent).  So often we hear, “She’s such a good mom!” or “He’s such a good dad!”  Yet if one treats a co-parent poorly, you can stop the compliments right there in my opinion.  They may be a good mom or dad, but they are not great.  The great ones are attentive to their kids AND model loving kindness, respect, empathy, and forgiveness toward their spouse.  Not only do the kiddos then benefit from a healthy home environment, but they also develop a standard by which they expect to be treated in their own relationships.  Who would want anything less for their children. 

Indeed, the difference between good and great is no small thing when it comes to the young lives entrusted to us.  Let us do all we can to be the best influence possible. 

May you be inspired!